Loving someone...

Who should we love?
Why do we love somebody?
How can we show our love?
When and where can we express our love?

These are the most common question of lovers.

Let me answer these questions according to my own belief and understanding.

I do love a person and her deep understanding with God. If she love God above all, I do believe that she can love me with sincerity and purity. True love comes from God so a person who love God will love in truth.

I love a person by Who SHE is... Many people will say, "I love her because she's kind, thoughtful, understanding, etc etc." But these are just a part of her being... Some may say, "I love her even though she is sensitive, insensitive, rude etc..." Wow! Very patient.

I love a person because I can't live without her, She is my completeness, she is my life. I love all of her from inside and out... Front and back... I love her for because she is SHE. I love her positive attitude and bad. I love her everything. God also loves me not because I am good or worthy, He loves me because He is love and He desire to love me. So, I love her because I desire to love her.

Showing our love has myriad of ways. Different people express love uniquely and each person desire to be loved in his/her standard or expectation. So the problem is, sometimes we can't reach the expectation of our partner. we struggle to do many things so that we may become worthy or be the best, and by this, our partner will be proud for us. Is this really a way to express love? For me, to express love will start by expressing our love to God. We can't hide anything from Him, He knows our deeds and thinking. Amazingly, even those things that are not yet coming in our heart and mind, He already knew. So, by loving someone, we must not do those expectations, but we must do things out of love from the bottom of our heart. We can express love by imitating the example of God. We ain't perfect but we have the image of God. Express love with honesty, purity, and in truth.

They say I love those who love me and I hate those who hate me... Gush!.. is this the pattern of God? If our partner love us we love them and if they hate us we do the same? I don't think so... We must love at all times, we should love weather in good or bad times because love is from God and He loves us all the time. Many people love someone, but when strong winds, waves and storm came, they will just say good bye to each other and left pain. To love someone is to love for a life time.
Long distance relationship is not good... It will not work... It is impossible... Do you believe on this?
Well, we might have different situation, but if God is in the midst of two lovers short or long distance relationship is not different. God will always be their reminder and binder. It's hard to love someone with a thousand miles away if you do not ask God's hand to be in the midst of your relationship.

I can still have many things to write but I will let you discover the answer to your own question. I do pray that God will be always with you in loving someone....